Archive for July, 2011
Consistent with the direction of the IBLCE exam board, the Third Edition of Linda Smith s highly successful Comprehensive Lactation Consultant Exam Review is now organized around the chronological stages of the mother-baby dyad s development. With over 800 questions and over 30 new clinical pictures, the Third Edition encourages an in-depth exploration of each stage of the mother-baby dyad s development, and poses questions that are often unique to that particular stage. It contains two complete Practice Exams and presents thirteen actual Clinical Case Studies, each asking several questions about the case. This review guide is perfect for beginning lactation consultants and those re-certifying, as well as dietitians, childbirth educators, nurses, and breastfeeding counselors! New Key Features: Information organized by Chronological Stages; Over 100 additional questions and over 30 new clinical pictures; Practice Exams that follow the 2010 IBLCE exam format by having 175 multiple-cho
Written for both biological parents and stepparents, this helpful guide provides the tools necessary to raising well-adjusted children after a stressful divorce. Innovative in its technique and cowritten by a certified divorce and stepfamily expert and her own stepchildren′s mother, this etiquette book provides an authentic guide for ex-spouses to interact on a civil and healthy level. Sample conversation for everyday scenarios help exes create a positive environment and ensure the mental and physical well-being of the children. Whether it’s coordinating discipline between households, introducing a new partner, dealing with late child support payments, or providing a regular schedule for children, this guide empowers parents to change what they can—their attitudes and communication skills. In doing so, divorced parents can increase their self-esteem and personal growth and emerge confident that they can handle awkward situations and powerful emotions while keeping the children’s best
This web site was created to give parents and caregivers detailed reviews of toys, games, books and other kids’ stuff from a real mom’s perspective. I’m a stay-at-home mom and have a young daughter, Ally. All the products reviewed on this site are ones my family has lived with and played with on a regular basis.The Mom Tips, which are also featured on the site, are ideas that I have tried and tested myself. Some of the tips are my own and some were passed on to me by my friends, who are also moms.Kindle blogs are fully downloaded onto your Kindle so you can read them even when you′re not wirelessly connected. And unlike RSS readers which often only provide headlines, blogs on Kindle give you full text content and images, and are updated wirelessly throughout the day.
My daughter had a play date recently with a younger girl in our neighborhood. This other child’s behavior is often is difficult and playing with her is not always fun for my daughter, but it was vacation week, no one else was around and the play date was to be at the other little girl’s house. I knew the mom would be present, so I agreed. We limited the play date to two hours.
The play date went smoothly-the girls got along fine. When I returned to pick up my daughter, the other child (let’s call her Susie) told me about a game they had played with the linens from her parents’ bed. They put them all over the floor (pillows, comforter, and sheets) and had made a fort out of them. The girls insisted I looked at the fort.
On the way into the bedroom to see it, the other mom took me aside and told me that she wasn’t sure letting them play with the bed things was the right thing to do. She asked me what I thought about it and how we handle things like this at our house.
I told her that the rule in our house is that Mom and Dad’s things are off limits. I told her that I don’t wish to put my head on a pillow that’s been on the floor, or put my body between sheets that have been on the floor with children rolling around in them, no matter how clean I know the floor to be.
I also said that occasionally, I permit my daughter to use the pillows from the family room couch to play with in one of her imaginative play scenarios, but only if she asks first and we agree that when she is finished everything will look as it did before she played.
The other mom then said to me – “so that’s why your daughter looked over at me to ask if it was okay when Susie began taking things off the bed.” This other mom was amazed that my daughter would ask before doing this!
This was one of those times that I knew that all of the teaching and modeling and talking to my child about what I consider good behavior really did get through to her. I was very proud of my daughter. I was very proud of myself – I had a moment of knowing that I am getting it right.
The other mom then told her child that there is a new rule in their house – she must first ask before using mom and dad’s bedding for play and that, if permission is granted, everything must go back the way it was before.
When my daughter and I were alone in the car I told her that I was pleased to hear that she looked for permission before just going along with what the other child wanted to do. She told me she was surprised the other mom just let the kid wreck the bed and play with all the bedding! That was why she looked for permission – for my daughter, who is used to the structure and rules in our home, it didn’t seem to be the appropriate thing to do.
I told her that I thought she showed good judgment by asking first and I really appreciated the respect she showed the other mom.
My daughter was beaming with happiness at the praise and the rest of the day was terrific. Sometimes we get to see the results of our parenting and that gives us the confidence to know that we are on the right track.
This also points out how important it is to communicate to your kids the household rules and behavioral expectations. If you haven’t done that already – get going!
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